Njengamanje, izinga lokuncelisa ibele kuphela lezingane ezineminyaka engaphansi kwezinyanga eziyisithupha eShayina lisengaphansi komgomo obekwe nguhulumeni wama-50%.Ukumaketha okunamandla okucasulayo kokuthatha indawo yobisi lwebele, ukusebenza okubuthakathaka kolwazi oluhlobene nokwenza ngcono ukuncelisa kanye nokuntuleka kwezinsizakalo zokubonisana zokuncelisa usana ezisezingeni eliphezulu kusekhona, konke okuye kwakhinyabeza ukuthuthukiswa kokuncelisa phakathi kwabesifazane baseShayina.
“Izingane ezijwayele izingono zikanina azilisebenzisi ibhodlela, nezingane esezijwayeleukudla ibhodlelabanqabe ukuncela ingono kamama wabo.Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi 'ukudideka kwengono'.Izizathu zokudideka zibangelwa kakhulu imizwa eminingi ehlukene njengobude, ukuthamba, umuzwa, ukuphuma kobisi, amandla nezinga lokugeleza kobisi lwebhodlela kanye nengono emlonyeni wengane.Lena futhi inkinga enkulu omama abaningi abahlangabezana nayo lapho befuna ukubuyela obisini lwebele.” UHu Yujuan uthe lapho izingane ezijwayele ukuncelisa amabhodlela zifunzwa omama bazo, izingane eziningi zimelana ngokuqinile, zimunca imilomo emibili futhi zikhala ngaphandle kokubekezela, kanti ezinye izingane zize ziqale ukukhala lapho zizibambe konina.Lokhu akuyona inkinga noma iphutha.Izingane nazo zidinga inqubo yenguquko nesikhathi.Lapho izingane zimelana, kufanele zibe nesineke esanele.
Ukuxazulula inkinga yokubuya kwengane kupro feed, kufanele siqale kulezi zici ezilandelayo:
1. Ukuthintana kwesikhumba: akukhona ukuthintana kwesikhumba phakathi kwezingubo nezikhwama.Vumela ingane ukuthi ijwayele ukunambitheka nomuzwa kamama.Kubukeka kulula futhi kunzima ukukwenza.Kuthatha isikhathi nokuzijwayeza.Ukushintsha kwenani kungaveza ushintsho lwekhwalithi.Ekuhlulekeni, kodwa futhi nokucindezela kwabantu abaseduze, umama kulula ukuyeka.Umama angaqala ekusebenzelaneni kwansuku zonke, axoxe futhi akhulume nengane yakhe, athinte futhi ageze, futhi ashintshele esikhumbeni esinamathelanayo.
2. Zama ukuhlala futhi uphakele: ngokuvamile, lapho umntwana ondliwa ngebhodlela, umntwana cishe ulele, futhi ibhodlela liqondile.Ngenxa yokucindezela, izinga lokugeleza lizoshesha kakhulu, futhi ingane izoqhubeka nokugwinya futhi ngokushesha idle.Lokhu kudala ukuthi umama azibuze ukuthi ngabe usedlile isikhathi eside yini engasuthi ngesikhathi esidla.Ngalesi sikhathi, bamba ingane ibheke phezulu bese uyisekela ngokwanele emhlane.Ibhodlela kufanele lihambisane nomhlabathi.Ingane kufanele futhi incele ukuze idle ubisi.Idinga amandla athile.Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ngesikhathi sokuncelisa ibhodlela, yima kancane phakathi kokumunca nokugwinya, vumela umntwana ukuba aphumule, futhi kancane kancane utshele umntwana ukuthi lesi yisimo sokudla okuvamile.
Isikhathi sokuthumela: Aug-12-2021